You want to go to play soccer?Go, and then together we will make lessons, I will help you.And with whom you play?Lets not stick especially with inquiries, but we will show interest, it is so necessary to the child.It is more difficult to resolve, than to forbid.Sometimes heart for fear for the son clenches, and resolve!Even in army where everything is constructed on orders, and that ask each other.Kutuzov at Tolstoy orders to the aidedecamp: My smart guy, go, look: It in battle, in a smoke and on fire! I hope, mind will be enough for me and not to try.As it grew the selfregulating child, I hope that she will not fall in love with the improper guy, but for certain it is impossible to know it.I am sure that many undesirable communications in the basis are a protest against the parental power.My parents do not trust me, well and let.I will do that I want and if it is not pleasant to them, let will choke.You will be afraid, as if your daughter did not seduce, but girls, as a rule, do not tempt, they equal participants of mutual seduction. I believe what exactly moral education does the child bad.I found out that when I destroy moral education which was received by the bad boy, he becomes the good boy.Perhaps, for moral education of adults there can also be some bases though I doubt it, however for cannot be moral education of children any justifications, it is psychologically incorrect.To ask the child disinterested to be incorrect.Any child the egoist, and the world belongs to it. If you ask a question to group of children of kindergarten: Who from you believes, what will be able to become the wellknown doctor, the scientist or the president?, almost all hands will quickly and surely shoot up up.But you ask the same group of teenagers, and already less than a half of them will raise hands.Here and most of adults very long time ago forgot about the childrens dreams.What has happened?That the soul flame put out in us? Help girlfriends to rise on a short flight of stairs.Walk fingers of the right hand up a short flight of stairs: big and index, index and average, average and anonymous, anonymous and little finger, big and little finger, big and anonymous, big and average.Cat Short flight of stairs high On an attic conducts.White, in a black strip of Kot on an attic lives.Help a cat to rise on a short flight of stairs by an attic.Walk fingers of the left hand on steps: big and index, index and average, average and anonymous, anonymous and little finger, big and little finger, big and anonymous, big and average. The author of this statement is unknown.Some of labels which hang people around on your child, and sometimes and parents, can forever be pasted to them: It confused.It is best of all.He is a coward.It is ingenious.It from the broken family.It lagged behind in development.She anything never sees.He is the difficult teenager.It has an awkward age.It pretty.The labels pasted to children exhaust them in a rigid framework from which then to leave extremely difficult. And it is unimportant, to what light the Cross or Ethical Culture because in both cases same to improve the purpose.As both the church, and school agree that the child is given rise in a sin, it would be difficult to expect from mothers and fathers of disagreement with so great authorities.The church proclaims: if you sin, in the future will be punished.The parent develops this thought and proclaims: if you again make it, I will punish you right now.And all try to ennoble, filling with dread.